I thought traveling outside NYC made me privy to great secrets. Really I just don’t pay attention at home. I’m always on defense for homophobic remarks. Today at the Holiday Inn Express guest cocktail hour (free booze and food, that’s Chardonnay in the pic) I heard two guys talking about gay couples. Once I spied more I heard one of them say their gay neighbors are their closest friends and he really wishes they would have kids already: “My wife and I are getting older and soon it will be hard to babysit.” I’m going to buy him a free Bud Light.